Considering that most physicians are about thirty years old when they complete their psychiatry residency, I'm pretty sure they're full fledged women by then. if you met someone and they happened to be in the mental health field, would you date them or would that be uncomfortable?. When Dating a Psychiatrist, Rules of the Couch Don't Apply. Sudeepta Varma;, M.D.. Sudeepta Varma. Search for more papers by this author.